Tuesday, November 16, 2010

QUEST FOR LIFE OR LOVE

Two words that are decided by our destiny or by ourselves depending on the category of people we belong to. There are two categories of people:-1)who decides their own fate and write their own destiny(the todays urban(thinking) youth for whom their individuality and the right to make their own decision is the most important fundamental right if violated it results to a crime similar to murder.
2)the person who lives in their dreams ,have full faith in the destiny(without they putting any efforts) which will shape their life and make it picture perfect somewhat like straight from the Cinderella story or like some fancy princess dairy.
So which are the two most important words that remains with us from the time we are born till the time we die and constantly being reminded to us by ourselves, by our friends, by our thoughts, by our surroundings and many more other factors. They are LIFE AND LOVE. Simple four letter word that we study in our kindergarten but the meaning of which we cannot find even if we do PHD.
I don’t know why it is so difficult to find the meaning of these two simple words and strike a balance between them. I am sure it is more simple than rocket science or neurology or some very complicated field of maths and science. But if its is so simple than why majority of the people cant figure out what they want from their life and what they expect from love. Why our expectations are never met. why we are always on trail in both aspect of our life professionally or personally.
Why majority of us are not happy with our current job and always think that we can much better than what we are today. Similarly in our love life also why we feel the constant urge to have something special everyday or feel that we dint try out other options before settling down even though our partner loves us unconditionally. Why do we feel restless very often.
We are like diamonds rare, pure and precious but in reality we are like a piece of stone which has to be polished, cut, shaped to perfection in order to become a diamond. We all are in search of someone who can transform us from the stone to a diamond. He can be our friend, our teacher, our parent, or our partner or any stranger that we meet on the streets but what is important is to find that person which is difficult. all want to reach a particular destination in our life,we all are on a journey but we don’t know our destination. Is it fine to have a life without a destination or the journey itself is the destination depends from individual to individual.
The question if we know the answer can make us win KBC.

Dedicated to all those people who make my life so beautiful.